Mother of the Bride Survival Guide: The Ultimate Planning Checklist

Everything you will need to know from the time she says, “I do” up until the wedding day.

6 to 10 months:

If you are contributing financially to the wedding, make sure the soon-to-be weds are aware of your budget and express any thoughts or concerns you may have.

Help your blushing bride choose her perfect dress! Remember to be supportive, but honest. She trusts your opinion more than you know!

If you are having a large wedding, allow yourself enough time to make a guest list. You do not want to exclude anyone unintentionally!

Contact hotels that are convenient to the venue, and ask for quotes.

Guests will most likely be contacting you for gift information, so be prepared to guide them on where the bride is registered.

Choosing A MOB Dress:

You want to love how you look 20 years from now. The goal is to feel as beautiful and as comfortable as possible, with a dress that is chic yet appropriate.

Choose complementary, classic colors. Stray away from trends. Most of the detail in your dress should be from the waist up to bring attention to your face, especially in photographs.

When you buy the dress, it should fit you the day you buy it. You can always have it taken in or out.

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3 to 6 months:

Get together with the bridal party to see if they need any help with the bridal shower.

Your guest list should be finalized. Feel free to include secondary names and addresses to fill spots if some guests are unable to attend. You may be in charge of handling RSVP’s, so create a system to keep yourself organized, and to get an accurate headcount for the venues.

If the venue of the ceremony does not provide a place for the bridal party to get ready beforehand, locate a place that is convenient for everyone. Arrange for finger foods and champagne to ease nerves… but no red wine!

1 to 3 months:

Don’t forget your dress for the rehearsal dinner.

Rehearsal dinner dresses are the perfect opportunity to dress in something more modern. Let us help you select the perfect up to date style for the rehearsal dinner. Leave plenty of time for alterations and fittings.

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Week of:

It’s almost show time! Make sure to give your daughter extra support as she prepares for her big day. Help her with any last minute details that may have gotten lost in the shuffle.

Make sure transportation arrangements have been made for guests to get to-and-from events.

Check that your dress for the evening fits well. Break in your dancing shoes!

Help the bride create seating arrangements. No awkward encounters, please!

Navigating the journey of being a mother of the bride can be both exciting and overwhelming, but with our survival guide, you’re now equipped to tackle every aspect with confidence and grace. From dress shopping and planning to managing family dynamics and enjoying the celebrations, each day offers its unique challenges and joys. Remember to take it one day at a time, prioritize self-care, and lean on your support system when needed. With thoughtful preparation and a positive mindset, you’ll not only survive but thrive as you create beautiful memories leading up to your daughter’s special day.

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